Tetap Tenang Walau Jodoh Tak Kunjung Datang
Hampir lima bulan lamanya kami tidak bertemu. Suatu hari tiba-tiba sahabatku itu menghubungi aku. Dia mengundangku untuk menghadiri pesta pernikahnya. Aku senang sekali dan mengucapkan selamat kepadanya. Dua tahun berselang setelah menikah, aku bertemu lagi dengannya. Dia tampak bahagia sekali. Dia memberi kabar tentang kelahiran anaknya.
"Bagaimana keadaanmu dan istrimu?" tanyaku.
"Masya Allah," katanya, "Alhamdulillah, segala puji bagi Allah atas segala nikmat-Nya yang terlahir maupun yang batin. Aku beri tahu kamu bahwa aku mendapat nikmat yang besar sekali. Sungguh, Allah telah mengaruniakan kepadaku seorang istri yang menentramkan mata hatiku", jawabnya.
"Dia adalah perempuan yang shalihah, terpelajar, cerdas, cantik fisik dan akhlaknya, dan baik sikapnya. Allah telah menjadikan kasih sayang di antara kami sehingga merasa sangat bahagia. Dia benar-benar memuliakan aku dan keluargaku, khususnya kedua orang tuaku. Kedua orang tuaku telah berusia lanjut, mereka sangat butuh perhatian khusus dan istriku telah melakukan itu dengan sangat sempurna, alhamdulillah.
Demi Allah, aku benar-benar memuji Allah setiap kali aku mengingat penderitaan-penderitaanku ketika ditolak oleh orang-orang yang dulu itu, dan aku katakan : Alhamdulillah, segala puji bagi Allah yang menjadikan mereka tidak menerima lamaranku", lanjutnya.
Demikianlah buah dari kesabaran dalam masa penantian. Itulah rahasia mengapa dirinya ditolak oleh perempuan muslimah yang dilamar. Karena memang mereka bukan jodoh untuknya. Allah telah sediakan jodoh terbaik untuk dunia dan akhiratnya.
Success doesn't come easy. It's not supposed to, or everyone would be successful in everything and life would be boring. This doesn't mean that compounded hard work cannot make success overflowing. It can especially when there is a lot of momentum behind your effort. Those who quit early on will only taste the bitterness of their labor. This also means don't spend 10 years in a career with mediocre results either. One of the easiest ways to find success is having an outline based on your vision. Now let's us look at how visions and an outlook collide together.
Vision and Outlines open doors for success
A vision is the map that starts the journey from ground zero. You can see various destinations or goals but they may be a bit fuzzy. You may see your ultimate goal but you may not know how to get there. Some visions are extremely detailed, while others feel like a nice day dream. This is why you cannot solely rely on visions only. It's like having a half tank of gas and leaving New York for California. Not going to happen on that low amount of fuel. Most of you will have a route and a plan of action. This is where an outline comes into play.
The outline provides steps and destinations for you to reach. It is a guiding force that helps turn visions into reality. However, an outline is not the final method. It is the beginning of your marketing plan and is not concrete. It will change as you move forward with your business. The outline consists of checkpoints that you have defined before hand based on knowledge, skills, budget, and goals you want to achieve. As you create your outline. You can add or remove items as you go. Check off the ones you have accomplished. At this point you need to be honest with yourself about everything.
From outline to launching your business
As you complete your outline. You can build your marketing plan. This plan is a bit more concrete than the outline but it can be changed over time. The marketing plan has well developed goals and a clearly defined audience. It will guide your marketing and sales efforts over the course of your business. After your final draft of your marketing. You can then launch your business or move onto other areas if need be. You may need to take additional courses before creating your marketing plan or build your website.
About The Author
David L. Feinstein, noted business coach and home business entrepreneur, is the author of various articles and books that help to empower individuals. To get the real innovative marketing knowledge and training, so you can be at the cutting edge of using technology to build your internet network marketing business correctly, visit; http://www.DavidLFeinstein.com