Tetap Tenang Walau Jodoh Tak Kunjung Datang
Dalam kondisi seperti itu, hendaklah selalu yakin dan optimis menatap masa depan. Jangan sampai menjadi hantu yang membebani perjalanan kehidupan. Ketika kita yakin bahwa Allah sudah menentukan jodoh, maka sesungguhnya peristiwa ditolak saat melamar, harus dipahami dalam bingkai jawaban atas rahasia jodoh. Bahwa memang dia bukan jodoh anda, bahwa jodoh anda belum Allah pertemukan dengan anda.
Yakin dan optimis, bahwa Allah akan berikan jodoh yang terbaik bagi dunia dan akhirat anda. Tugas terpenting kita adalah terus memantaskan diri di hadapan Allah, agar Allah segera pertemukan dengan jodoh terbaik bagi dunia dan akhirat kita.
Mereka yang menolak lamaran anda, itu karena memang bukan jodoh anda. Mereka yang menikah dengan orang lain, padahal anda mau menikah dengan dirinya, itu karena memang bukan jodoh anda. Sederhana jika kita pahami dengan keyakinan akan kuasa Allah atas makhlukNya.
Buah Kesabaran dan Penantian
Selain tetap optimis dan yakin, hendaklah tetap sabar dalam masa penantian jodoh. Dalam buku "Obat Penawar Hati Yang Sedih" karya Syaikh Sulaiman bin Muhammad bin Abdullah Al-Utsaim, dituliskan sebuah kisah nyata tentang seorang lelaki. Berikut cuplikan kisahnya : Suatu ketika, saat melakukan suatu tugas pekerjaan, saya bertemu dengan seorang lelaki. Tugas itu memakan waktu lebih dari sebulan. Oleh karena itu, terjadilah suatu persahabatan yang akrab di antara kami berdua.
Suatu ketika aku bertanya kepadanya, "Sahabat, aku tahu kamu belum menikah, padahal umurmu sekarang hampir 40 tahun. Kenapa kamu mesti terlambat menikah? Orang sepertimu pasti mengetahu manfaat-manfaat yang banyak dari menikah."
Sahabatku terdiam, kemudian katanya, "Ah, sahabat... Demi Allah, aku benar-benar telah lelah mencari dan mencari calon istri sampai aku putus asa, dan akhirnya aku tidak ingin menikah. Sejak lebih dari tujuh tahun yang lalu aku sudah sering melamar perempuan lalu ditolak. Tahukah kamu sahabat, aku melamar lebih dari 18 perempuan. Setiap kali aku mengetuk pintuk untuk meminang, aku berkata dalam hati, mereka pasti akan menerimaku, insyaallah", jawabnya.
Success doesn't come easy. It's not supposed to, or everyone would be successful in everything and life would be boring. This doesn't mean that compounded hard work cannot make success overflowing. It can especially when there is a lot of momentum behind your effort. Those who quit early on will only taste the bitterness of their labor. This also means don't spend 10 years in a career with mediocre results either. One of the easiest ways to find success is having an outline based on your vision. Now let's us look at how visions and an outlook collide together.
Vision and Outlines open doors for success
A vision is the map that starts the journey from ground zero. You can see various destinations or goals but they may be a bit fuzzy. You may see your ultimate goal but you may not know how to get there. Some visions are extremely detailed, while others feel like a nice day dream. This is why you cannot solely rely on visions only. It's like having a half tank of gas and leaving New York for California. Not going to happen on that low amount of fuel. Most of you will have a route and a plan of action. This is where an outline comes into play.
The outline provides steps and destinations for you to reach. It is a guiding force that helps turn visions into reality. However, an outline is not the final method. It is the beginning of your marketing plan and is not concrete. It will change as you move forward with your business. The outline consists of checkpoints that you have defined before hand based on knowledge, skills, budget, and goals you want to achieve. As you create your outline. You can add or remove items as you go. Check off the ones you have accomplished. At this point you need to be honest with yourself about everything.
From outline to launching your business
As you complete your outline. You can build your marketing plan. This plan is a bit more concrete than the outline but it can be changed over time. The marketing plan has well developed goals and a clearly defined audience. It will guide your marketing and sales efforts over the course of your business. After your final draft of your marketing. You can then launch your business or move onto other areas if need be. You may need to take additional courses before creating your marketing plan or build your website.
About The Author
David L. Feinstein, noted business coach and home business entrepreneur, is the author of various articles and books that help to empower individuals. To get the real innovative marketing knowledge and training, so you can be at the cutting edge of using technology to build your internet network marketing business correctly, visit; http://www.DavidLFeinstein.com